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CATHY LEE GIFFORD'S “IT'S NEVER TOO LATE”

CATHY LEE GIFFORD'S “IT'S NEVER TOO LATE”


Cathy Lee Gifford's latest book, “It's Never Too Late” has been an amazing discovery for me this Christmas season. I bought it as a gift for wife, Audrey and daughter Lisa to share but ended up reading it myself. I found it a book really hard to put down and one I know I'll re-read and refer to often.

Cathy is one of those people who, whenever she's on camera, just draws my attention completely, She has an ebullience, and genuine enthusiasm that is simply impossible to ignore. On that morning show with Regis Philben, she proved to be the perfect foil to Philbin's testy personality. In fact their chemistry was so perfect that it was hard not to watch in amazement at the magical gift Cathy had of creating charming moments out of touchy situations. I've always found a little Regis went a long ways, but I could always appreciate a little more of Cathy. Somehow, together, they made great TV.

Her book reveals the astonishing number of hurtles Cathy had to overcome at nearly every stage of her career. The early chapters deal with some of her bad choices and their consequences. The numerous rejections she had to endure as well as a wrong-from-the-start first marriage. Then it covers some of the great break-troughs in doing commercials and other ventures. But the pervasive theme that led to her great success is her “Never give up on your dream” attitude. She puts a great little poem or song lyric at the start of each chapter, and one, “I'M gonna make a Clean Start” says it all; and would serve many of us surviving this cold North Dakota winter:
“I'm gonna make a clean start/ Wash the cold winter away/ Put a scrubby dubby spring in my heart/ And cart the old garbage away… Allez! / So what if I get soap suds in my ears/ So what if I get soap-suds in my eyes/ This is the most fun I've had in years/ Out of the ashes the Phoenix will rise”

Also her book tells of her marriage to Frank Gifford, The great NY Giant half-back and famed Monday Night Football cohort of Howard Cosell and Dandy Don Meredith. Frank was 20 years older than Cathy and had two children from a previous marriage, but theirs was a marriage made in Heaven, and Cathy was with him right to the end when his many football concussions began to diminish his mental stability.

More recently many of you may have seen Cathy on the top rated “Today Show” with Hoda Katb and that show was doing very well too, but Cathy felt a powerful need to respond to a Higher calling so she left that show. Amazingly I, quite by chance, discovered what that calling was. I often get up in the middle of the night if I can't sleep and tune in TBN for some message of hope for these dark and dangerous times. A couple of nights ago, who do I find promoting her latest book? Cathy Lee!

As always Cathy was riveting and very persuasive in her presentation. And her book, “The Rock, the Road and The Rabbi” was being offered as a gift to those who contribute to TBN. The book is about exciting discoveries Cathy has found in Israel that make really exciting many areas of the Bible she once found troubling. Bottom line? Cathy's given up show biz to serve the Lord.

In closing, I just want to cite one more poem from “It's Never Too Late.”

I Want To Matter: /To have meant something special to somebody else/ To have made a small difference simply being myself/ To believe this three- ringed circus/ Has fulfilled some earthly purpose/ I want to matter/ Before I'm gone,/ To have been the shoulder that someone leaned on// To have been the safe harbor in someone's storm/ To know someone was blessed because I was born/ … Though I'm fragile and foolish and flawed, I'm sincere/ I want someone to fondly remember me here/ More than being praised, more than being flattered,/ I need to know without a doubt that somehow I've mattered/ And if I'm really honest/ I would like to write one song/ That someone will be singing after I'm gone.

Believe me friends, Cathy Lee's book is a treasure. Don't let it pass you by .


Gene Pinkney, For the Daily News 1/ 10/20


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